On Facebook and Twitter, I often read about how “bored” many people are. With as many tasks I have to complete each day, I have a difficult time envisaging how any individual who is in middle school and beyond can experience boredom. Why not read the numerous great books available? Why not start a blog? Why not invest more time into studying your core academic subjects, especially those that pose the greatest challenges? When you feel like you’re bored, this is simply a sign you’re not devoting your time to enough important phenomena. While you may not feel inclined to make lifestyle changes, I want to warn you that I’ve witnessed too many people get themselves into serious trouble by being “bored” too often.
The answer to being bored is not drinking so many alcoholic beverages you end up attempting to drive your car and then foolishly run into someone on the road and kill him or her. This can cause you to end up incarceration and then you’re really going to know what boredom truly is.
Although you may live in a small town where there’s not many places to visit to offer you entertainment, you need to learn to gain satisfaction from appropriate things you can do with your time. For those of you in middle or high school, I would encourage you to participate in as many extracurricular activities as you can. Join as many clubs as you can. If there are not clubs or organizations on your campus that interest you, see if there is a faculty member who would be willing to start a formal organization or club that interests you and others. If you cannot get a faculty member to help you to start the type of organization or club you desire to be a member of, then partner with other students and form the club or organization. You will find that there’s nothing wrong with having an informal club or organization.
Make the most of your time. Life is too short for you to waste most of your time talking about you’re bored. One of the best ways to terminate boredom is to find things you can do to help others. Your life will be more rewarding when you give some of your time to helping others. Many people are always bored because they are empty on the inside. When you share some of your time assisting others, your life will have more meaning.
Allowing yourself to be bored can cause you to make poor choices; choices that may impact you for a long time or forever. Be the master of your own behavior. Don’t let your body control you—you control your body.
If you’re a college student and you find yourself bored, this means you’re wasting valuable time that you could be investing in increasing the prospect of you obtaining a job after you graduate or improving your chances to gain adequate funding for graduate school. It may be useful for you to get a part-time job to occupy some of the time you believe needs to be filled, and this will enable you to make some needed money.
Don’t let your idle mind be your tragic flaw.
Antonio Maurice Daniels
University of Wisconsin-Madison
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