One of the most effective ways to show people how they behave is to respond to them the same way they respond to you. This, of course, goes against what is traditionally taught in most faiths. From time to time, however, you need to expose people for who they are by demonstrating to them how they act. Jesus often employed parables (elementary teachings) to make profound and enduring statements. You might contemplate approaching people in the aforementioned way as a means of adopting a similar pedagogical practice used by Jesus.
By temporarily choosing the ways of others, you can cause them to abandon their unfavorable conduct, considering they will not like when these ways are used against them. This strategy presents a meaningful opportunity for you to teach them valuable lessons and change their lives potentially forever.
At some point, you simply have to let folks know their behavior is unacceptable, and you must engage in efforts to discontinue their troubling conduct. You possess the power to ameliorate those around you. Although they may not know yet, you’re the change they need to see in their lives.
Dr. Antonio Maurice Daniels
University of Wisconsin-Madison
There you go. They get mad when you pull a “them” on them. And sometimes they still don’t get it.
Exactly! Then, they think you’ve done them wrong. Even if they don’t learn, it enables you to stop allowing them to mistreat you.