Most Christians passionately believe “if you be still God will fight your battle.” Of course, this belief emerges from Exodus 14:14. I’m a Christian and I believe in this scripture too. I don’t, however, think that this scripture means that one cannot offer his or her opinions on everything at any moment. For me, the scripture does not have anything to with being silent, but has everything to do with trusting in God to solve those matters that are beyond one’s ability to solve on his or her own. My life is an open book.
I never hesitate to express my viewpoints on anything—no matter where I’m situated. I’m never fearful about sharing anything with anybody in any place about myself, except for information that may be a personal or family security risk. I’m not going to share my Social Security number and my mother’s Social Security number with you in this piece. I know you were just waiting for me to give out those numbers.
We’re all unique human beings. I’m a person who elects not to be silent on anything. People who have something to say about everything in any place should not be viewed in any more negative light than people who choose to be silent all the time, most of the time, or some of the time. What’s so virtuous about keeping your mouth closed? Of course, people are going to present all types of hypotheticals and real-life cases where speaking out caused people great harm and even death. My dominant response to those hypotheticals and real-life cases is you have to speak up for yourself—even if it costs you everything.
Lovers of truth are not afraid of the consequences of truthful expressions. Using your voice is one of the strongest ways to stand up for yourself and to articulate who you really are.
While it may sound all cute and sophisticated to say that silence can speak volumes, silence does not say anything in reality. Silence is silence. Silence communicates silence. What are you saying when you keep your mouth closed? Nothing!
I know I’m in the minority on this issue, but I have to stay true to who I am. I’m a person who will not hold back anything.
It’s my desire for a space in the American and global imagination to be engendered where extremely outspoken people like me are viewed as no more flawed than those who elect to employ silence at some level. I really would like to know what makes “quiet people” more virtuous than those of us who are extremely outspoken? Those “quiet people’s” silence could be the very reason why they may be getting pressed so small. While you sit there and say nothing (and perhaps even nod your head and smile) you could be taking unnecessary attacks that could be circumvented by simply speaking out—open your closed mouth!
To my fellow Christians, faith without works is dead!
I contend that this politics of silence is a way to rein in those of us who are extremely outspoken. I believe this is a massive attempt to make people like me more docile.
Now, when there are times when you just don’t want to speak, that’s personally fine with me. It’s fine with me because you are not doing it to give honor to the politics of silence—you’re doing it because you simply don’t want to say anything right then. You’re not trying to pretend that your silence is communicating anything other than you just don’t want to say anything.
I just don’t want people trying to think that a general proclivity to exercising silence and/or to being perceived as a “quiet person” is a powerful virtue.
I’m a tremendously successful person and my outspokenness has gained me an overwhelming amount more than it has cost me. In fact, the things that my outspokenness has cost me are not even things that are important.
Again, as I’ve previously stated, I know that the views expressed in this piece will not only be in the minority in America but also across the globe. These thoughts emerge from various people, including my parents, often telling me that I need to learn to keep my mouth closed. During the times that I did keep my mouth closed, I was steamrolled and lost things that I could have had if I would have said what I had to say. Many of my enemies could have already been defeated if I would have spoken instead of exercising silence. Certain people would not have been able to get away with things if I would have spoken instead of being silent. Many people would not have misunderstandings about me if I would have elected to speak instead of being silent.
Yes, I’ve tried employing silence often but it has never worked out too well for me. I’ll continue being extremely outspoken because I’ve experienced great success and happiness this way.
Antonio Maurice Daniels
University of Wisconsin-Madison
You said it about faith with no works. I think you have to find your walk on this journey. I find it interesting how one can shift gears. I think that’s important. The bible tells us we should know when to speak or not. I like balance! Most of time I would be outspoken though.
The bible informs us to speak the truth with boldness and stand firm in the truth. Yes, you should not just speak all of the time, especially when you don’t have anything to say. I think the only times when we should hold off from speaking is when we have nothing to say, when we are just speaking to reaffirm a point that situation has already made crystal clear to everyone, and when speaking would do nothing to improve or advance anything. Thanks for reading and your response, Drew!
I absolutely disagree with you!
There is a time and season for everything. A time to talk, a time to listen, a time to converse and drum roll a time to SHUT THE HELL UP. Silence does speak volumes. Silence is not just silence without foam or vapor! There is delibaration in silence. This is not my way of trying to be sophisticated and cute! Everybody has an opinion, we just have to learn to express it in a manner that is becoming.
Feel free to express your opinion, but I will beg you and your opinionated brethren not to do it when it’s that time of the month! Coz, imma sho’ ya’llz how to spell opinion and how to give an opinion! Insert smiley face!
I understand your perspective. Thanks for reading and your response.